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To me, Facebook in the early days was like an ongoing cocktail party, where all my friends, former cast members from shows, and friendly acquaintances would be, at any hour of the day or night. They would reminisce about how, "those were the days, my friend...," share old scanned photos from our younger, wilder years. I remember throwing sheep to get someone's attention if I hadn't heard from them for a while. It was a giddy, good-natured thing to do, a way of saying, "Hey, you okay there?"

In the beginning, it was still possible to scroll through my feed and catch up on every posting I'd missed from every friend. Now I have over 900 "friends," and it seems only about 12 of them even see or engage with my posts at any given time. Now, when I post about a minor health complaint or a warning about upcoming weather, they may not see it for a week, so their response is out of sync, and I have to assure them I am all better now, and the snowstorm was over days ago...

My kids say Facebook is for "old" people, and they refuse to use it. Instead, they have Tumblr and other obscure (to me) SM platforms that I cannot understand how to use. (They have forbidden me from following them, anyway.) I x'd out X months ago and joined Bluesky, but I have to keep reminding myself to post there, and the experience doesn't feel like "home." I guess Facebook doesn't anymore, either, but it's familiar, and I know how to use it, mostly. (They keep changing things, though, so I may not be using it right. I dunno...) Almost all of my posts these days are about political outrage. There is small comfort in having my outrage acknowledged, but I have long since eliminated from my wall anyone who might have a dissenting opinion, so it's sort of like cheating at solitaire.

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